How do you feel about your husband’s ex wife?
June 8th, 2008
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Tell us about your husband’s ex. Do you get along with her? Are you jealous of her? Does she cause problems for the two of you?38 Responses to “How do you feel about your husband’s ex wife?”
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I can’t wait til my stepdaughter turns 18, I don’t think that my husband’s ex wife has any intentions either, well she has intentions of getting my husband’s money, to spend it on her crap, and to also have a thousand kids…and neglect the kids etc…
Why can’t things be perfect huh???
I’m glad to see I’m not the only one holding on for dear life until the 18th birthday of a step child …
I adore my step son, I truly do, but I LONG and PINE for the day we NEVER, EVER have to speak to HER again. EVER. Now THAT will be happily ever after …
I have never met her and I probably never will, but my husband and his mother both say she is nuts and she was discharged from the military for psychological reasons.
I have never officially met her, but she seems to have issues. She allows her daughter to do things that are unacceptable at our house, she divorced the perfect man and she has a boyfriend who acts like a teenager. They will go out and party and she will still be sleeping at 5pm when we drop her daughter off….nice huh?!
well she no very nice
well lets see, when my husband and i first got married, she told every one that my beautiful two year old was hers!!! oh I was steaming!! She is a old hag. She was unfaithful to my husband. She abused all 3 of her kids and now two of them are so messed up, cause one is in prison. She steals, she cheats. and we finally caught her trying to use my husbands social to get a credit card. I wish she would just fall of the face of the earth.
I feel sorry for her for what she had to put up with , she is lucky I wish I was in her position she is lucky to be rid of him, he does every thing to get out of helping her with the kids,when the kids come to our place he dumps them on me when all they want to do is spend time with him, then when he wants to big note himself he gives them gifts of money which by the way is mostly my money. so in that way I will be glad when they are 18 years old. so I can afford to live without scraping to get buy and we are not even married yet. but we are partners in business big mistake on my part he is eating up all the money I had before I met him.
So when your husband bags his x to you, you have to know he is only going to tell you his side of the story my partner is a arrigant son of a …. who thinks its alright to treat woman like this because while he is treating his partners like this she can still be in controle of her son
My partner told me his X was a drunk and a gambler and lost all their money,which I now know is a lie, the only mistake she made was to fall in love with him and have his children, she is a very nice desent person, just trying to do the best she can for her kids.
I’m not saying there are not evil woman out there as well, but make sure you find out the truth before you help with the cause, and end up looking like a fool.
Gratefully, I have never officially met my husband’s ex-wife. My husband had what we jokingly refer to as a “starter marriage” — short term, no property, no kids! Once the marriage was over, he’s had no interaction with her at all
WOW!! the stuff I could tell you about my husbands ex-wife. I know her from school and I still cannot see what my husband was thinking when her married her. She has three kids, two are my husbands, she uses the kids for money both from the state and the dads. Every time my husband gets a raise we are back in court. We have the kids 50% of the time and she has them the other 50%. On her days to have the kids she leaves them with her mother and the only time she has the kids is when it benifits her or makes her look good. I have been the one that has helped with the kids in school (my husband works 60hrs a week). My stepson has a speech problem and is not the best reader. Her idea of the whole thing was “he is stupid and will always be behind so why should I waist my time with helping him” I could have punched her in the nose. My stepdaughter has issue with lying and causing problems with people(because of her mom). My husbands x gives her money or other rewards when she makes up stories about me and my husband. We have spent thousands of dollars in courts to prove my stepdaughters lies and my husband’s x’s lies. We have won every time but it is pricey. I have never met some that is as evil as she is. She has boyfriend after boyfriend, one time my stepdaughter asked me why I didn’t have two guys at the same time like her mother, I about wrecked the car (she was 8yrs old). She is so unhappy that she has to make everyone around her unhappy too. The one thing she has been trying to do for the last four years is to get me and my husband to divorce, it is not happening. She is such a control freak that when me and my husband got together he could not make a choice about anything (he can now and that is why he’s x’s wants me out of the picture). She cheats and lies and everything else possible and my stepdaughter is following right in her footsteps, it makes me sick!! Thank the good Lord my stepson is following in my husbands (and mine) footsteps (not that we are perfect, but we are decent people who look out for their childern not just themselves). I pray every day that my stepdaughter will see that her mothers way of life is not what she wants.
I have ten more years and than my stepson will be 18 I cannot wait it will be a wonderful, MOST WONDERFUL DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lets see where do i start. Well my husbands ex wants him to have an affair with her. Aint that some crap. Came right out and told him that she wanted him to come over to her house after the kids are asleep and bang her. COME ON!!!!!!!! Did she really think he would just run to her and be hers forever? Gimme a break. I couldnt believe my ears when i heard him telling me this. Though there were some indiscretions, he didnt sleep with anyone else, on his part that involved her. But come on. He kisses her one time and she thinks he wants her back. It was simply a momentary slap of stupid. Then she told him he was stupid for telling me what happened. That he shouldnt feel bad for what happened. That he has no reason to feel guilty. Is she the promoter for the adulterers club? I know it is partially his fault, but i have told him for 8 years she still wanted him, he didnt believe me, until now. YES i am counting down the days until graduation for the youngest. Lets put it this way….I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don’t like her I tried, but she influenced her daughter being disrespectful to me when the child lived with us. Now my step daughter is a grown woman and we don’t speak. I tried to be friendly with the woman I did not know my husband when he was with her they had been separated several years when he met me, so I did not understand the problem. Then it hit me one day that she probably had never given up on the idea of him getting back with her. When he his daughter that we were getting married his ex called him and stated that was like telling the girl someone had died and she was extremely upset.
Which one? He has 3. The first one I’ve never met, nor has he had any contact with since she cleaned out his checking account and he divorced her (no kids). The second one I chat with on the phone for hours at a time about 3 times a year, they have a great friendship and I encourage that (also no kids). The third one … they had one child, a boy, right before they divorced. She is, as his Mother correctly called her, The Whore of Babylon. She has since had two other children with different fathers. The first guy she married and is still married to. But she lives with her latest guy and the kids at her mothers house. I tried to foster a good relationship (we live several states away) from the get-go, but when the child was 5 she told me on the phone, and I quote “Don’t ever be alone with my son, because he will say whatever I tell him too.” OK I’m not going to jail, so I told my husband this was his deal and I was washing my hand of the whole thing. I didn’t tell him what she said, I haven’t spoken more than 10 words to her since. We can’t wait until the child turns 18, only 3 more years.
There is not enough room on the internet to express just how much I detest my husband’s ex-wife. They have been divorced since 1986, have two grown children in their 20’s and she is still sucking the blood out of my husband and our family financially. He has been paying her child support and alimony over the past 22 years (we have been married 18 of those yrs) and she still gets alimony (until the day one of them dies or she remarries, like that’s going to happen). I hope and pray my husband lives to see the day the alimony ends:)
And as of today we are still getting smacked around by her, we just got papers in the mail from her attorney thru ours that we owe her more money. It is too complicated to fill you in on all of it but it has to do with his daughter only going to college 2 years not 4.
You would think that any woman with respect for herself, a woman, regardles of court documents, who was married to a man for only 8 years, is 51 years old, a teacher in one of the wealthiest counties in the US, owns her home, would not want to be supported for the rest of her life by a man who can’t stand her.
Wow!! What a hot topic! LOL
Since I am an ex-wife I decided to be kind to my husband’s ex. That turned out to not be such a great idea.
I now see why they are no longer married, not saying my husband is perfect but he’s certainly better off. They married for the wrong reasons, she was pregnant, and they were young and away from home for the first time (military). They were only married just short of 2 years and it was just sad.
She’s still very bitter and I think a very hurting person. I do pity her but don’t speak to her at all since getting to know her.
Unfortuantly, we have very little contact with his son but are praying he will change that when he’s older & has more wisdom. My husband writes to him & does try to call him. His letters are sometimes answered (we’re always thankful & happy about that) but they rarely answer the phone. He’s been trained to believe that if he has a relationship with his father or likes me & his siblings, he’s being unloyal to the mother.
Once at a family counseling session I was invited to by the counselor they told the ex-wife she should be thankful that I was the childs stepmother and that I loved and respected her & the child the way I did because of my life experiences. And they also told her she was actually the one who needed counseling, not her child or us. That was a tense moment. I never returned because I was just speechless that someone was actually looking in this situation as a complete neutral. Felt good. They had been attending sessions with the counselor, of her choice, for months when this happened, so it wasn’t like the second or third time there.
And my husband and I will both be glad when the child support is done. Wouldn’t mind it so much if we were allowed a true relationship with the child without her bitterness & lies.
the x i don’t mind the first son is a problem he needs to grow up and get out of our life. i wish he will not come to our house any more. i really don’t like the boy/man he is 31 by the way
AH I can not handle her at all. I never talk to her. But I sure see her through her daughter. The girl has no rules just turned 11 but her my sapce say 17. Fish net leggings and photos and make up galore. Yet around grand parents it is skirts and smiles. Lies to my daughters and tells lies that only a mother would believe and her mother (ex wife) supports all this stuff. Says it is okay. Normal even. She is lazy her home is disqusting. UG… She yells aht my husband if even says 1 thing about how she is..Crazy women
OMG I can’t even begin to tell you what she’s like! TERRIBLE!!! she allowed her 4 yearold to be molested by her boyfriend and even after it all came out she continued to be with him. she is probably one of the worst mothers. ontop of being incredibly vindictive she is also bipolar and refuses to take her medicine. nuts nuts nuts!!! she even went as far as looking up my perscriptions at her place of work and then questioning my husband about them…TOTALLY ILLEGAL. She’s mad because she lost the best thing that could have happened to her and is jealous of the marriage and family that my husband and I have. Too bad theres still 14 years left to deal with her!! I hope my stepdaughter will see her for what she truly is though.
yea, um, where do I start. This women is a big fat, two faced lying egotistical witch. She doesn’t care for her own child or anyone else for that matter, only her self. She will do anything to start trouble and will go to any measure to get even. She doesn’t care to break the law to get her revenge. It is so sad to actually see someone this deranged!! Thank goodness my stepchild is 20 years old and we don’t live near her or I just might have to get my nasty on!!!!
She’s a selfish Witch! And my boyfriend is so far up her a$$ that his head is going to pop out of her mouth at any moment! It’s ridiculous! And I take care of her KID! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cannot STAND my husband’s ex-wife. For some reason, she thinks she is God’s gift to all men and thinks everyone wants her. If you think that you get rid of the ex when the kids graduate - think again!! They get married and have children and guess who is at every party/birth/etc……that’s right THE EX!!! And you are constantly reminded that no matter how much you love the grandkids, you are not “really” their grandmother. IT TOTALLY SUCKS!!!!!!!
Never met the infamous ex… But from what I’ve witnessed she is the most vile thing to have walked on this earth… She scammed almost 25 grand in excess child supprt all while my DH was disabled and out of work… She has manipulated my stepkids to be snotty and above socializing with “that side”… She would not let the kids attend their grandmothers funeral b/c DH didn’t approvewith her… May God have pity on her soulyl for all t
he heartache and turmoil
I am always surprised when reading these posts! I have been married for almost 2 yrs and 80% of all our issues have been because of the ex. She is the reason the marriage ended, her affairs and her divorce petition, all hers. Met my husband 4yrs post divorce and things were semi quiet for the dating period, then post wedding it was game on! Twin stepsons changed instantly, every time we would go on vacation, she would hand us hundreds of dollars of medical bills she had hoarded for months the day before we were leaving. She would tell us the children didnt want to go with us, then after she thought we had already left, she would let the children call us crying asking “why did you leave us dad, we wanted to go!” Final straw came last October when we went on Fall break only to learn she had petitioned the court for child support to be handled through the stae, always had paid her personally. Kama being the bitch that it is, now after a lengthy, retarded court battle and 2200 dollars later (our portion and all money that ahould have been spent on the children) we find that she wont be getting the raise she had hoped for, but a decrease!!!! Just wishe that her unhappiness would rub off on someone else…she is so nasty that there is minimal hope that she will remarry, we can only dream…
my husband’s ex-wife cheated on him for 17 yrs. When she filed for divorce, she told their four kids, that he was the one who cheated on her. Of course, the kids believed her. The kids were forced to choose her or him. My husband hasn’t seen his daughters since 1995. She had the kids “spy” on me, and had a friend of hers come to my work to get “info” on me. I am an open book, with nothing to hide. She, on the other hand, had lots of secrets, of which I exposed, one by one as I found them. What was there to lose? She had already taken the kids away from their father.
She did remarry eventually, and even though married, is back to her cheating ways… she’s on a dating site, again. Weird thing, once when we were in a mall, there she was with the kids, and she hung her head and scurried away like a frightened rat. WTH was that about? weird weird weird
She must have been afraid to meet me, probably because of all the lies she spread about me. She’s a freak.
….don’t really know what to say about this subject…I’ve never met my husband’s ex wife so..yeah..I can say though that based on all I’ve heard…he made the right decision in leavin her. LOL! Of course, because then he married me haha.
I hate her!!!!!! She is a two faced cow…. They weren’t married but have a daughter together. She makes everthing far mor difficult than it has to be. She has stalks his friends, who she hated when they were together. She even always calls in to his mother when my car is outside. She spends all the money he gives her on herself. I can not wait until daughter turns 18 although I have a funny felling it wont end there!
To be blunt and honest, wish my husband’s ex-wife and the little lying, manipulative, money-grubbing, thieving spawn she forced upon my husband was dead - brutally and slowly murdered preferably. The system sucks and is totally beyond help or correction when it allows an adulterous wife custody of the kid and the dad, who is innocent of any wrongdoing, has to pay the bitch “child support” for destroying the marriage and his relationship with his kid. To make matters worse, the system does not care that she makes more than 50k a year and we are barely scraping by; does not give one lick that our son does not get his needs met well and we suffer while she shops at expensive stores and wants for nothing. The kid has turned out just like Mommy and any accusations against Mom had better be proven on video camera, with Congress, the police, and media witness, and a doctor there to swab the step-dad semen off the kid the second it happens….but accusations against me or my husband are taken as God’s truth in stone without any investigation or anything. He can’t even send his kid a post card without it going thru the ex first. I know…a father’s love and all that crap. What about our son and me?!? God, I wish the ex and kid were both dead so we could live a real life and afford a home of our own, etc. Wish the accusations about me were true, because the kid would be dead and I’d have put a bullet in that whore’s brain pan by now. Wish someone would because, as much as I love my husband and will never take him to court for child support, I don’t know how much longer I can take of any of this or of supporting a second house without my consent.
she is a shrew of a woman that lives to destroy any happiness in her path. even when it’s her own childs. she doesn’t care that she’s destroying a beautiful little girl she’s too jealous to embrace that there are lots of people that love the child and that the child loves her baby sisters and wants to have time with them. she is jealous about the fact that the man she threw away found someone to love and support him. she didn’t want him but she didn’t want anyone else to have him either obviously. why? because she couldn’t control him as easily so when she lost that control she started using her children. what a pathetic person that uses their children to manipulate their ex. she’s already ruined her sons life by taking him away from not only his bio father but his adoptive she’s now going to destroy her daughter by taking away her relationships with her dad, her 1/2 sisters, and me. ANd ya know what she will win because the system dosen’t care that her ‘evidence’ is lies and manipulations and bs. they don’t think the mom is wrong unless the mom is in jail or disappears.
My husband’s X is Satan’s sister or she has a demon!!
First of all, my little step daughters have been kept from seeing us and the X has a serious case of parent alienation syndrome. The 14 year old has been allowed to go to her boyfriends place (who is really her step-brother)to sleepover every weekend, put on the birth control pill and is now pregnant anyway. The 12 year old has had her first sleepover, to go visit a friends place (girl not a boy) the first time in her life only because we said we would do that for her, now all of a sudden she is allowed. She however isn’t ever allowed and hasn’t ever had a friend over. The X (Satan’s sister)is always drunk and falls down the stairs and vomits on her bedroom floor the next morning. she’s a chain smoker and doesn’t care that second hand smoke is harmful to her children! She quit her job because my new husband is paying her so much child support (and paying for another not even his) for her bad habits she doesn’t think she should have to work.
The 12 year old has been threatened and told she would be a trader if she moved in with us. The 12 year old is so happy when she sees us. All she has to do is move in. My new husband and I are just 20 minutes away and she wouldn’t have to change schools. The 14 year old who in the past had a wonderful father daughter relationship has been turned against her father. They are really close and when we heard the news about the pregnancy, he didn’t yell or get angry, just said..”I’m here for you!” She is basically living with the boyfriend awaiting birth.
She is jealous of what we have and where we are going life, yet she makes no attempt to pick herself up, quit the bad habits and be successful, but would rather smoke, drink and be on the computer all day.
God help her…. she’s doomed to be lonely and is burying her own grave and making her own daughters dislike her!
I am glad to see I am not alone. My husband’s ex is 90% of our disagreement. They have 2 daughters. We took the elder daughter to cruise 3 years ago. She called my husband names and things and had we paid the the daycare fee for the younger daughter. Even she keep saying she wants nothing to do with him, my husband is still the first person she call when get problem. She knows he loves 2 daughters. She wouldn’t said what she wants. She make everything in the name of 2 daughters.
I F****n hate my husbands ex wife,I can’t believe such a smart guy was with such a stupid person for so long, Can We name names here?? If you guys looked her up you would laugh. Just imagin the movie with the Mask LOL thats her and she thinks she is so hot!!! HA HA HA HA, she is what you would call white trash and she will not and can not ever stand up for herself and that takes all the fun out of telling her off…She agrees when I tell her off and just says she is scared.. so that takes all the fun out of it, she sleeps around with every guy, girl or whatever she can and her live in boyfriend does the same. What a joke, anyway I can’t wait till my step daughter turns 18 then we don’t have to ever deal with that idiot ever again.
I hate my husbands ex so much you can’t even comprehend, they split up and “allowed” him to see their daughter for a few weeks, and then everytime he and the child made plans, at the last minute she would stop him, and also when he phoned the child was always busy! Now, he and I also have a daughter and he spends alot of time with her we also live 2 states away, anyway she hated me then and hates me more now, she goes on and on that its nothing to do with me his relationship with her and I get that, but if she wants to live with us in MY house that yeah it has everything to do with me, you the ex wife is nothing but a f**ked up b***h and quite frankly I have had enough, 18 for that child can’t come soon enough and then I will gladly tell you what i think! She stopped him from seeing her 6 years ago and now she is desperate for them to have a relationship….. you f**ked it up lady…… now you are trying to fix it???? PLEASE! I am going to go crazy!
I can’t stand her. she is a complete idiot. She hasn’t tried anything between my husband and myself but she doesn’t know how to be a mom. The kids LOVE her because of this. They don’t need to clean up after themselves there so why should they do it at our house?? The daughter is allowed to ditch school with mom and the son missed so much in the morning is he now on probation but he SEEs mom allowing his sister to do what he was doing. Mom just calls it in so it is “excused” This so called mom is just their friend with the title mom…my husband is the bad guy because he says you have to go to school, you need to be home by a certain time, No you can’t smoke!..Yes the son nows smokes and mom allows it because she tells my husband well, he is addicted now!! Aghhhh oh and as of two days ago the daughter is now dating her brothers best friend!! Yes the best friend who is allowed to spend the night..a lot!!! My husband is confronting the idiot on this today and telling daughter NO WAY and if the friend continues to spend the night we will have to look into the living arrangements. I know the X will tried to make reason and tell my husband really its OK..I told hubby not to allow her to talk to make your point and make sure she understands that u ARE not Ok with it.
The Xs mom wasn’t around much at all. She was a “friend” to her daughter too. My husband was good friends with her brother 1st and then met her..they started to date. Her mom would take off out of town and leave her on her own..16/17yrs old. Sometimes with no money and hardly any grocery’s. He would help pout with that and stayed over with her and what do you know..she got P/G at 17!! Baby at 18. They did married but voila divorced 7yrs later. She had several relationships going on through the internet. Now when they divorced they were living out of state. They planned to move back to their city where both families lived and the children will live with dad but mom would be there a lot. Before they moved mom met yet another guy and she ran off with him and married…course he was in the military so they were sent off a 1000 miles away from her kids. So she moved from her own lil ones for a guy!!! Now they have divorced… She tells lies about my husband and has taken him to court a toal of three times to get the kids..yes lost all three times. She has had a lawyer each time and he twice. This last time he said forget it..did it on his own. The fact that she gave their 15 yr old kid a gun and didnt tell dad about it made her look VERY bad in court!! ( I have children and we have a baby together)
So…no I don’t like her. She is awful and has no idea how to be a mom. She is setting her kids up for failure and has messed up thier relationship pretty bad. My bro n law plans a heave talk with their oldest when she turns 18. My husband feels that will be the time to tell them the truth. (oh and CPS was called on that mom twice and because of her neglect towards the children got hem evicted from their apartment. Hid the documents from husband until the office was able to contact him. How did he not know. He left the house at 5:30am and didn’t get home until 8:00pm. She did not have to wk. He would come home to care for the children, made dinner and bathed them. She was on comp. He tracked her on the comp and got TONS of stuff that proved her cheating. CPS reports only listed her as the adult. Didnt even talk to dad about issues. He had to contact them! That is when he left her)
Aghhhhh ok…done for now!
You all are fooling yoursevles if you think it is over when they turn 18. Its not if they go to college. I’m dealing with that right now and it is not fun, I did not sign up for what I got into. I did not know until after the marriage what it came with—my stupidity for not finding out completely, and I’m talking completely such as divorce decrees that say college funds for both children and mom has to pay nothing and believe you me —she doesn’t pay one red cent. Its always ask your Dad… when will Dad have a life? I believe that is why it is so very important to teach children today the meaning of a lifelong relationship when it comes to marriage, people just don’t understand how hard it is on the NEXT spouse.
I am so tired of dealing with My husbands Ex wife. She is the most selfesh person I have ever met. My husband has been paying her child support for the last 4 years,has paid 1/2 of day care, and has even paid her rent a few times. I am not sure why he did this to himelf but, he did not go through the state(so dumb). Now she is claiming that he owes her over 20,000 in back child support. He has proof, but the great state of UT considers all the payments “gifts” since it was not filed through the state. She neglects them, and spends all the child support on herself. She only buys used clothing for his girls.She bought a used bed and as a result his girls got bed bugs. She would not clean, or do the dishes for months and had maggots in her sink from the mess. She also tried to kill herself in front of the children when my husband first filed for divorce, she is mentally unstable obviously. I am a good step mom!! I love buying the girls new outfits, and taking them to fun places. We had the girls for the Summer…and my husband was still paying her child support, so I had to pay for everything. I asked his Ex if she could send the girls $100, so we could go to a few fun places…and she ignored my request. She told my husband that I have nothing to do with her children, and I don’t have a say in what goes on. I just found out she is also 5 months pregnant.When she was married to my husband she made him get a vasectomy. So I can’t have a baby with him
She also is trying to blackmail my husband. His ex told him that she knows he doesn’t owe her the back child support, and she can change it if he allows her new husband to adopt his girls. She is trying to turn the girls against us, I am so fed up with this. I love his girls so much and they deserve to have a better mom.
It’s amazing that there are so many terrible ex-wives out there!! I’m an ex-wife as well as a second wife. Thankfully my first husband has no contact with me and my daughter. He was a very mean, abusive man and valued money over his child. He chose to not pay child support and not see his child over paying the standard amount and having visitation. He was okay with that, and I was blessed to raise my daughter in a healthy environment! We’ve been free for almost 7 years!
2 years ago I met an amazing man, also divorced with a child. He was “friends” (hanging out and such) with his ex the summer before we met but decided that it wasn’t healthy for anybody to be doing that. 3 months later, I came into the picture. Best decision he made! I married him almost one year ago. Best year of my life.
Minus his ex. His ex is exhausting. She turns everything around so it sounds like we think their son is a burden. He’s not. He’s a fantastic 12 year old! She’s never on time for pick ups or drop offs, she always makes a big deal about money and how she can’t afford anything…yet somehow she can afford her new house, new car and be able to take their son out to fancy restaurants. She cheated on my husband several times in the marriage and when the divorce rolled around she took him for half a house he was working on (during the separation), tried to take his car (which she ended up totalling) and tried to keep him from his son. This man is the most amazing father. HER entire family actually petitioned against her for HIM so he would have custody rights. In the end it was 50/50 custody and he was relieved of paying any child support as well as gaining access and 50% care and control. Hooray! That’s one thing I’m thankful I don’t have to deal with.
But she’s just bothersome. Always in the way. Always changing plans. Always demanding something. She’s rude, she’s obnoxious and she sleeps around. Ridiculous role model for her son. She’s manipulative and anything you say to her she twists around so it sounds like you’re always at fault. It’s terribly frustrating!
Thankfully I have a goodwilled man who cuts her manipulating conversations short and keeps it about their son. He respects my boundaries and is upfront with her when it comes to schedules. He doesn’t back down. I’m thankful because their son is fun and great and our kids get together like best friends.
6 more years until my stepson is 18. Although it won’t end things (my stepson will graduate, get married, have babies…), it will certainly cut down on day to day contact!
I’m an ex wife . A good one . I leave my ex and his new wife alone . I’m a good mother and I don’t keep him from his son . My ex husband cheated on me with his new wife . He left me and the kids to go start a new family with her . I held our family together for ten years while he was a raging alcoholic . Despite that I loved him deeply and was a good wife . I’m not bitter , those years I spent with him were the most beautiful years of my life and I’m great full to have spent them with him . I know the beat revenge I can have is to let her have his deceitfull cheating a** . Hell probly do it to her to , but unlike me shell deserve it . I really do wish them happiness though . I loved him to much not to . The part that makes me the saddest , besides that my children only have a father two days a week is that even after stealing my husband she’s so insecure that she won’t even allow me and my ex husband to be friends . He was always my best friend , even when he was having an affair he was still my best friend . Not only did she steal my husband but she stole my best friend . That hurts the most . The ironic part is that she’s a devout mormon . A mormon adultress . They’ll get what’s coming to them and ill get what I deserve to . A man that loves me as much as I love him that’s true to me that really is my best friend , a family . Someday ill be happy again . And ill get it by being the same good woman I’ve always been . Ill never sink to their level or give them a reason tp talk bad about me .
I finally met my husbands ex at my step-daughters wedding after we have been together 14 years - and I really liked her! My husband enjoyed spending time with her husband too. Funnyist part was it really freaked out the bride.
They had a horrible marriage that was both of thier faults and then they fought over child support and visitation. My husband managed to maintain a relationship with his daughter and it grew into a very strong relationship as they both grew up. I met her when she was 15 (10 years after divorce) and we have always had a great relationship.
I am very grateful to my husbands ex because I’ve never had any desire to be a mom but, thanks to her, I get to be a step-mom and grandma!
I never met his “ex” and I do not even know where to begin. This lady is holding on to a delusion that he is going back to her some day.