What kind of things do you tell your best friend that you would never tell your husband?
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9 Responses to “Best friend vs. husband”
My husband is my best friend. I don’t have any friends outside the computer.
Husband all the way. He is one of my closest friends and there is just no comparison.
My older sister and I can talk about ANYTHING! But I sort of censor my conversation topics with my husband. I believe I am bipolar (not officially diagnosed but I fit the symptoms) and my sister is bipolar, so I can talk with her about it. I am much more frank about how I feel about the disorder with my sister than I am with my husband. I don’t want to scare him away.
I tell my best friend everything. My husband, not so much because he tends to be very judgemental when we talk about anything-he always has an opinion and shares it strongly. This wouldn’t bother me so much if he didn’t think of himself as the authority on everything. He just has to be right! So, we communicate about the important stuff, but I would much rather have a talk with my best friend who accepts me fully and completely for who I am.
That i am in love with someone else.
My b/f and hubby hate each other! It drives me crazy. It is almost like being in a love triangle for my attention! But I’d drop him before her; she’s closer to me than blood family and has NEVER let me down.
I tell my husband everything. I have learned over the years that it is best not to share secrets with other women. I share with other women freely about women issues, but those are not secrets. I learned from my first marriage that if it has come to the point that I can’t talk to my husband it is time to stop wasting time and move on. My husband may not understand every feeling I present to him, but he listens to me and that is what is important to me.
I tell my best friend everything. I talk with my hubby about most issues but there are just some I will not talk to him about. He is very strong-opinionated and just has to be right about everything, and offers advice when I just don’t want it, I just want to talk. But my best friend is always there for me and will never judge me or anything. I can tell her everything and anything, just like she tells me anything and everything. Sometimes I wish we were lesbians, we would have the perfect relationship lmao
My husband wants our marital issues to stay private, so I find myself isolated and hiding
My feelings from those who I am closest with. I feel so isolated & alone. When I speak to him about my feelings who else do I speak to??) he doesn’t understand where I an coming from and it’s frustrating. I don’t know what to do?! I feel like I’m about to go crazy because I have to keep so much inside but he doesn’t seem interested on what I have to say. I realize henie my husband, not my best friend. I can’t expect him to be my girlfriend.that hurts my feeling
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