Comments on: Do you get jealous when your husband talks to other women?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 13 May 2013 19:05:02 +0000

My husband is bipolar. He thinks I am insecure, jealous and weak. This is because he talks (Flirts) with any beautiful women who are complete strangers. IE: Where do you live. Are you single. What do you like to do. etc. He often stares and talks out loud to get their attention, and he does this in front of me. I wonder what he is capable of when I am not around. Yeah, I this is behavior is unacceptable, disrespectful and painful to my ego. I am worth every moment he has spent with me. I deserve better. I respect him, even though he says he doesn’t mind if I did those things. I may just start doing it…he says trusts me. Hmmmm.

By: Briar

Briar — Wed, 01 May 2013 02:02:21 +0000

To a certain extent. I’ve never thought that he would cheat on me, but I don’t think most men understand how some women think. My husband has such charisma and is easy to talk to, and I can tell when a woman is giggling back at him being flirty! It’s not necessarily what he does, but the reaction he gets from being himself.
What really bothers me is the fact that he gets jealous and even gives the silent treatment at the mention of an old man at work who told me a joke, or the maintenance guy who simply told me about some roaches in the wall, or heaven forbid a black man look at me! It’s like, I’m a horrible wife if someone talks to me, but he can make women giggle and smile at him all he wants.

By: Jewelz

Jewelz — Sat, 16 Mar 2013 08:49:27 +0000

I met this guy he isnt that handsome he is 44 I am 35 I used to have big beautiful breasts. Then loosing so much weight cause i have an allergy to gluten and wheat my breats got smaller.I have been with my man for 1year and 2months we are engaged to be marriedhave been engaged for 9months. he has so much problems in his life left my Interior designing job for him, To help him with his work and support him and be there for him have been working with him for nearly 1year and not ones he has paid me and i never asked for money. Cause he is paying for his lawyers cause his ex has accused him in lot of things. I am crying and writing this He has never introduced me yet to his family or his kids he has two and I have 3 i have introduced him to mine. The thing I hate about him that he keeps looking at other women he goes and to a hairdresser that has beautiful women he perves like anything he has never taken me out never bought me anything on any accasion but i have he says I am sorry I just want to get this thing with my ex out of the way then things will be better. even when I am working with him working my butt for him as in landscapping behind my sunnies i am in tears telling myself how can I be so in love with a man that is treating me this way. when I ask him when are you going to let me meet your family first thing he says is PESSURE! you are pushing me away by you saying all this. he keeps saying oh she is pretty oh look at those jugs (breasts)that she has. like example i took my sons to a new hair dresser she is so good with hair told him about it first thing he says whats her name is she young does she have big jugs is she hot then he said i might ask her out for coffee then he says i am just stiring you. he is causing me grieve then he breaks it off with me then comes back to me then does it again.Why do I love him he isnt that good looking too.Am I that stupid.Please help with advise:(

By: Kate

Kate — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 22:06:32 +0000

I do not get jealous of him talking to someone if he is actually talking about something. But I have corrected him in the past checking out other women. But I really don’t care anymore because he is devoted to me and I’m devoted to him. I have a job that requires me to talk, dine and wine with my clients… so not big deal.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 16:44:01 +0000

My husband of many years started out by showing me pictures of all of his old girlfriends, telling how wonderful each of them were, etc. just after we married. I listened the first few times, but it began to upset me. He then studied with anther (female)student and told me how he wished he would have met her before we married. Over the years he had has several emotional affairs and a physical affair last year. He has online friends and I have found inappropriate communication with them. I am trying to salvage the marriage because of our children. From my experience, I would say if he does not stop flirting, etc. with other women because it makes me feel uncomfortable, he is not showing love towards me. “Love is kind.”

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 27 Feb 2013 19:02:12 +0000

Jealous or not wouldnt be a question at all! If he is a married man, then he has some responsibilities. My husband and I are newly married but lived together for 2 years. He is trying to be a writer and has about 2500 friends online. Some of them are so called close friend and of course 98% of them are young, bright, sexy women. He has a tendency to chat, to express, to share his life story, even the most deepest secrets of himself with those friends. And his excuse to that is of course, he is a writer. He cheated on me couple of times before and I caught him. He is attracted to every single young beautiful and smart girl out there and mostly to french speakers! He has extreme fantasies, stays up until morning, always online and shows extreme reactions to me when I ask him about his friends, or what he does with them. He accuses me of not trusting him but he never gave me any reason to trust him. Its not jealousy because I am young, very beautiful and self-confident, I know. It just his disrespect to our commitment and if he continues to do this shit and try to justify his pathetic ego, I will leave him for good.

By: natalie

natalie — Thu, 07 Feb 2013 17:59:24 +0000

yes i do get jealous when my husband talks to other women because its more than just “talking”, its flirting. he has given me every reason to not trust him at all around any woman that passes by